, drown in my love crash and burn

, Shymira O’day Wilson

chapter 2 

after her years at w.p.a.c.e.s she went to discovery charter school she met plenty of people to be continued

advice asked

Anonymous asked: hi, ive been going out with this guy for about almost 5 weeks and havent talked for about 5 days. i really like this guy but i feel as if im the “guy” in the relationship. he also takes things too fast & told him that as well. its sort of a distance relationship since i cant see him everday since he lives in a different city. my bestfriend tells me hes getting really intimate with this girl and im not surprised. i want to end it but i dont really have the heart too at the same time. ):

my answer:why do you want to end it and why don’t you want to end it?

but i mean do as you feel just make a list of reasons you want to stay in the relationship and resaons you dont

advice asked

Anonymous asked: well i want to end it because, i feel as if im the only one putting effort into the relationship, and that he doesnt treat me like a girlfriend. and i know for a fact hes been getting really intimate with other girls. i sort of dont want to end it because i really like this guy. i thought he was different but i guess i was wrong. and i dont know why i dont want to. /:

my answer:by the looks of it then, maybe you should end it, he’s just wasting your love and you could be giving it to someone who actually deserves it and won’t throw it away and fuck around with it. but that is just my opinion, maybe he’ll change if you end it. but yeah, ;/

advice asked

anynomus asked :This guy I know is in love with a friend of mine. He has fallen hard and she hates relationships but she flirts with him all the time so he is all confused and hurt and stuff and i have tried telling him how wonderful he is and how he should find someone that actually cares for him and i think I might like him now but how do I go about showing him that I can help? How do I prove that I would be so good for him?

my answer: um i see a lot of my friends have problems similar to this i mean just be honest i know if it was me i’ll vent to him and let him know everything by texting b/c i cannot say certain things over the phone but just let him know